The Viagra Diaries

     This novel proves there’s plenty of life and hot sex after sixty.  Anny Applebaum is a sixty-five year old journalist who not only recognizes her wants, needs and desires....but she goes for them!  She posted her profile on JDate.com after being divorced for so many years.  Most of us thought that would be hard to do, for fear of the crazies we could possibly meet! Anny thought meeting her charming diamond dealer, Marc Rothstein, was a great find.  She quickly learned what a lying, sneaky Viagra using man he really was. Since she still believed in love and monogamy, her heart forgave Marv, AKA- Mr. X, for being so disrespectful.  Her yearning to be in an honest relationship with him, made her appear unrealistic and needy.  By the end of the novel, Anny figures out her feelings and gains the strength to move on without Mr.X.  

     So many of us could relate to Anny.  We are all strong, beautiful women who want to be respected for who we are, as Anny did.  We discussed how in our society women are not noticed if they aren’t young, thin, and beautiful.  We should love ourselves as we are, but as we shared -- some of us wouldn’t mind a little nip tuck in certain places.  Why not?  If it makes you feel good, go for it!!

All the Best,
Millie

LUCKY 7!! Beginning our seventh year...

The Bookworms at Beny's Trattoria

My Dear Book Buddies,

It is our club's seventh year! Can you believe it?

What a privilege it is to get together with such an amazing group of women every month! It was so nice seeing many of you there, but missed those who couldn't attend this time. The best thing is that there is always next month....

At this first meeting we met at Beny's Trattoria in Garnerville.  We discussed The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah. The setting is World War II, Nazi occupied France. The story follows two sisters, Vianne and Isabelle, and how they each respond in times of great challenge. Their parallel stories are different but are just as suspenseful, complicated, and emotional. Although The Nightingale is considered fiction, it is based on a heart wrenching truth.  There's everything you can expect from such a story -- fear, prison camps, beatings, near starvation, sacrifice... but there is also hope, resilience, and survival. We talked about the things that people endure in order to survive in these situations and the unthinkable things they'll do to protect the ones they love.

As usual, our discussion was passionate and heartfelt. Being the teachers that we are, we made ample connections to self, other texts, and the world (this sounds like one of the report card indicators, ha!)  This book reminded us of how we need to be grateful for the freedoms and luxury that so many of us take for granted. It was also a confimration that despite all odds, the human spirit prevails.

Thank you my dear friends for the love, passion, and wisdom that you bring to each of the meetings. Looking forward to being a dedicated member of The Neary Book Club for many more years!

Love you all!
Maria P.

A nightingale bird

POETRY NIGHT

                                       Two roads diverged...

                                      The bookworms + waitress!

At first I was a bit skeptical about poetry. I like poems but wasn't sure how to select one to four, to share with our group. The task became much easier than I expected! Looking at our awesome poem book (thank you Maria) these poems really relate to all of us! Thanks for all being "phenomenal" women in my life!
-- Jill

How could I be moved to tears — and moments later try not to pee in my pants from laughing so hard? The beauty and power of poetry.  Thank you all for sharing so much of yourselves for this great evening. BIG KISSES for Maria Pages — for thinking of the idea of the book — and for making it happen for all of us.
                           XXOO & Love
                                 -- Robin

Absolutely one of my favorite meetings. I loved that everyone was able to share what was personal to them and how the search for the poem evolved and why it was chosen. I got to know a little bit more about all of you. Thanks, Maria, for an amazing job (even with minor glitches) on the first ever Book Club Poetry Book. It was very creative and thoughtfully put together.
See you all in September,
-- Maria R.

I thoroughly enjoyed listening to everyone's favorite poems. They were each so inspirational. I wish Myrna & Lourdes all the best. Have a wonderful summer to all.  Till we meet again --
Fall 2015, for year 7!!
—Yvette

Poetry can really stir conversations! It touches everyone in a variety of ways! Thank you for my present!
—Myrna

I tried to engrave in my memory the image and sounds of each of you as you read your poems. I'll cherish these moments. And when my memory fails me, I'll have your poems and pictures.  Thank you all for inspiring me and including me in Neary's wonderful Book Club.
                         Love,
                         Lourdes

Saving the World by Julia Alvarez

I was intrigued by this title, Saving the World!! I was thinking, who was saving the world and why did the world need saving??? As I started reading the first few chapters, the story line appeared to be similar to A Year by the Sea, but then the historical piece Alma was writing began to pull me in as a reader! I wanted to know how the story would evolve. I was proud to know that my "mother country", Spain, had been instrumental in vaccinating people from the Caribbean Islands. Could one of those people be an ancestor? I was also surprised by how politicized medicine was even then! Some things don't change.  The story had many themes: trust, generational friendships, different ways to fight causes, rights of children, using children or poor individuals as "guinea pigs" etc, etc. What would you do if you were asked to volunteer your child for a questionable medical treatment?

---Myrna 

Despues de un invierno lrgo y frio es bueno que decir: Primavera feliz!

We were so sorry so many "worms" were unable to join us on Monday.But even though we were only four we sure did have a lot to talk about.....relationships, Spain, Aruba, New Hampshire, and even The Andy Griffith Show!!!

Truth be told I had a difficult time choosing a book for this month. Ihave many books in my kindle wish list - my usual genres: slavery,WWII, mental health.... but for some reason I could not wrap my head around these topics this month.  So, I chose a book that would take us away -- to a warm country and a love story.

I hope you enjoyed our trip to Spain!!

If you are interested in finding out more about Vera and Mateo's passionate relationship (maybe a good summer/beach read) the sequel is: Love, In Spanish.

Hey, you never know.... maybe I'll go to a conference this summer and come home with a "debonair" Spaniard!!!

XOXO
Adios -
Jill

The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simsion

Dear All,

Thank you for the opportunity to enjoy your company, the good food and to share our thoughts on the long awaited (thanks to all of the endless snow!!!) discussion of The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simsion, the sequel to the The Rosie Project, that we read back in November 2013.  We all agreed that the first book was definitely funnier and a bit more enjoyable than the sequel. Perhaps it was because the stakes were so much higher for Don Tillman, the professor of genetics that we all fell in in love with in the Rosie Project.

After reading this book we weren’t so sure that we liked Rosie as much as we did in the first book.  At times, she came across as self-centered, unreasonable and dishonest.   Though some were quick to point out that Don wasn’t entirely forthcoming with Rosie, particularly about Gene’s arrival, the mishap during his children observation excursion and the series of events that were unleashed as a result of Don’s naiveté and social incompetence. That being said, the book did have its funny moments, like the scene in the airplane with the air marshal. But in the end, we all breathed a sigh of relief when all did work well for him, Rosie and Bud! 


What we enjoyed the most out of our time together was simply being able to sit back and truly enjoy each other’s company.  We certainly missed those who could not make it and actually spent a few minutes just expressing how much we enjoyed that we get to get together for our book discussions.  Thank you, Robin for keeping us going strong!  Jill will host the next book club meeting and will be reaching out to us soon with the title of the book she chooses for us to enjoy!  Until next time!

Love,

Miggy

Wined and Dined by Mary Velez January 12, 2015

Hi Lovely Ladies!

I was so glad and relieved that the weather let up and we were able to have our book club time together,  which I do cherish! Everyone was there, except for Carmen who was surely missed!

This is such a vibrant and passion filled book club. You are all dynamic and beautiful soul-ful women. I appreciate you all and "I thank my God Upon every remembrance of you!" Phil 1v3

This book, A Year By The Sea, Thoughts Of An Unfinished Woman, gave us the opportunity to reflect on the beauty and strength of womanhood. We engaged through journal reflection the importance of nurturing ourselves.  We answered questions and reflected on quotes that tugged on our need, desire to experience solitude, embrace our dreams and live life to the fullest -- without losing ourselves, but in actuality finding ourselves. It encouraged us to be mindful of our need to do something that pleases our spirit. We all give so much to others and we cannot ignore the importance of seeking a relationship with ourselves.

As this new year 2015 is upon us, I pray that God will bless you and fill you with the desires of your heart! Be blessed book worms and never lose sight that you are not alone and are loved and supported by many.

I look forward to next month, where Miggy will host The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simsion, on Monday, February 2nd.

Enjoy!

Mary